60 ways to keep your wife's love GUARANTEED!!! part 1/2

Insya allah, I've got some points in this video that I would like to share. 60 ways to keep your wife's love guaranteed, for me it's applies to both husband and wife. No need to wait for video "60 ways to keep your husband's love guaranted". But it would be nice to hear it also if it available..InsyaAllah.

This is the summary of what I've heard and understood. Please correct me if I am wrong.

1 . Make her feel secure
2 . Give Salam; Assalamualaikum warahmatullah everytime entering your house
3 . Your wife is a fragile vessel. Treat her carefully
4 . When you want to advice her, advice her in privacy
5 . Be generous with your wife
6 . Be polite; eg give a seat to your wife
7 . Avoid anger
8 . Looking good, smell great
9 . Don't be rigid
10. Listen to your wife
11. Yes for flattering, No for arguing
12. Call your wife with the best name and the name she like
13. Pleasant surprise
14. Preserving the time
15. All of us has shortcoming, Expect and accept her shortcoming
16. Show and tell her how you appreciate her work
17. Encourage your wife to be kind to your kin, parent (silaturahim)
18. Speak or talk the topic of her interest
19. Show that she's wonderful, in front of her relatives
20. Give each others gifts
21. Getting rid of the routine
22. Think good of each others
23. Have a manner of pretending that you didn't see or hear small things from her that you do not like
24. Add drops of passion
25. Expect and respect her jealousy
26. Be humble; she's taking care of you and family
27. If you want to make your friends happy but in return making your wife miserable; don't do it
28. Help your wife with the house chores
29. Help her to respect your parents and gradually to love them and be kind to them.
30. Tell her that she's an ideal wife
31. Remember your wife during du'a
32. Leave the past to Allah SWT; don't dig the past
33. Don't try to show her that you are doing her a favor, you are only a carrier to what Allah had provided
34. Syaitan is your enemy, not your wife
35. Give food to your wife.
36. Protect your wife from envy of devils
37. Show her your smile
38. Don't ignore all little problems/ things you do that your wife don't like and keep repeating it
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted or moody
40. Respect her thinking
41. Help her to discover more skills
42. Respect the intimate relationship and the boundaries of it
43. Your children is your heart walking on earth, help her to take care of your heart
44. The gift of the tongue
45. Don't be a stranger, sit down together
46. Let her know that you're traveling coming home; don't surprise her.
47. If you have argument with her, don't just leave the house.
48. Home has secrecy and privacy
49. Encourage each other in worship to Allah
50. Her right upon you is engraved in your heart and your conscious; not written
51. Treat your wife with kindness in all situation
52. The kiss is a messenger; don't just jump to your wife
53. If you had problem / dispute, don't share it freely and openly with anyone or everyone
54. The good health of your wife is you in good health
55. You are not perfect; you are not always right
56. Your happiness, your sadness; share it with her
57. Have mercy on her weakness
58. You are the comfortable chest for her. Be a 'lean on me'
59. Accept her as it is
60. Think or have a good intention for your wife all the time

Listening to this videos will make you more understand all the 60 ways. Some of it or may be most of it we have already did it, but maybe for someone else they forget about it. Hopefully this will remind us of what we have done and what we haven't done. InsyaAllah